Psst… Hey! Hey, you! Yes, you. I’m talking to you. Hi, stranger, how are you?
Look, if this has been the first time someone has talked to you online this week, then we have bad news for you.
Do you think signing up on an online dating website was a mistake? It’s been a while and I don’t get any messages, and ladies don’t even respond to me!’
Well, we’re sure there’s a good reason why all this is happening. We’re here today to help you revive your online dating life. Because clearly, something went wrong.
Let’s figure out what this is.
Wasting your time
Hey, we get it. You sign up on an online dating website and you see a profile of some sexy lady. And you lose your mind over her! That’s alright, but know this: you’re not the only one who has laid eyes on her.
That means you’ll either have to be REALLY good (and we mean REALLY, really good!) at communicating with her online – because you have to stand out from the crowd – or move on to the next girl.
If some girl, whose profile you obsessively check over and over again zillion times per day, isn’t responding (but she’s clearly read your message because she was online) or said “hi” to you but then started ignoring, then get over her.
Stop wasting your time – there are plenty of girls to choose from! If you keep getting fixated on people online, you’ll end up being alone for the rest of your life.
Picking only the hottest
Sure, dating a hot Latin girl is cool, but a girl doesn’t have to be the hottest to satisfy your needs.
If you’re looking for a long-term girlfriend or have marriage plans in your mind, you might want to get to know the personality of that girl rather than drool over her looks.
In long-term relationships, it’s not the looks that matter but how you communicate and understand one another and how well you get along.
Searching for only the young ones
Dating a young Colombian girl can be exciting, but it might get tiresome over time. If you’re not on the same maturity level as your partner, it might create disagreements and clashes of interests over time.
If you’re one of those guys who immediately reject profiles of the ladies older than 27, then don’t be surprised if you still cannot find a match.
Look, 27 is no magic number. Just because a woman is 28, or 38, doesn’t mean she’s un-dateable now. Again, it’s not the age or the looks that matter. It’s the personality that should serve as your pre-selection filter.
Believing that a simple “Hi” will get you a girl
Hey, online dating requires you to put at least some effort into it. Well, pretty much like the real life dating.
Look, just because you send a girl a message saying only “Hi” won’t magically make her head over heels in love with you. Be sure – she gets dozens of those “Hi’s” every single day or even hour.
When people approach one another on the streets, saying just “Hi” is not enough. You need to keep this thing going.
It’s like getting into a car you like, and the word “Hi” is simply your way to unlock the door. But now you have to find the keys to start the car!
Being offensive or believing in stereotypes
“If you’re a single mom, don’t bother talking to me,” “Latina girls stay away (unless you have no mood swings),” “If you’re fat, ugly or uninteresting, I won’t even respond.”
Women have conflicting views about online dating bio’s like this.
From the one hand, it’s offensive and childish. But from the other hand, women can thank the guy from warning beforehand that he’s an asshole, so they don’t even waste their time on dudes like that.
If you’re the type of guy who’d happily put something like that in his profile, you might want to keep those sexist and stereotypical things to yourself.
No girl wants to be dating a guy who is judgmental and negative – so make sure you’re not one.
Having a serial killer-like profile
Do you have only one profile picture, and it doesn’t even show your face? And/or is your profile bio empty or says only two or three words?
Well, no wonder why women seem to steer clear of you. This is what women call a serial killer-like profile. A guy who has little to no pictures of himself or doesn’t reveal much about himself on his profile strikes Colombian women as some maniac.