About Love: How to Let Your Partner Know You Love Her

 

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Speak out your love in your own way

Everyone has his own character and the ways of showing love are different. Especially when two people are of opposite genders, their ways to show love are far different. In the rendezvous with your beloved one, if you could not make her feel your love and you are careless, showing little concern about her feeling, it’s very likely you have already ruined the date unconsciously. It is often the case that a couple break up only for the reason one of this pair cannot feel being loved by the other. So how to make your partner know you really love her? Keep reading. The following steps maybe can help give you some thought about love and offer you some advice about how to show your love to your important person.

How to Make Your Partner Feel Your Love?
When someone wants to express his love for another person, he is supposed to try to figure out doing something to display love rather than directly saying that in words.

For example, some guys feel that after a dispute, it’s good to make an apology by giving his wife some money to buy something she likes. The husband holds the opinion that his such behavior is actually showing his love for his wife while the wife feel more annoyed at him. It’s quite a pity that neither the wife nor the husband has the ability to read the mind of each other. The fact is that no one can have the skill of reading people’s mind.

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Find your love on a dating website

Five pieces of advice are provided here for couples by which you can try to learn something from it and understand the love language of your partner.

1. Writer out a list of your opinion about 10 ways in which you can feel being loved, included can be the ways of communication you like, the proper length of time for being together in the same space, etc. You can list out whatever you think of and then share this list with your partner.

2. Ask your partner to write down a list of her views about ways of feeling being loved and share with each other.

3. Read the things you’ve written down on the list to your partner. You can read the items with your partner one by one. In that way, you can have better further thinking when you’re listening to the inner voice of the significant other.

4. When listening to the partner’s presentation, there is no need to feel ashamed or angry that it seems you have been making mistakes all the time. The most important thing is that you two should catch the opportunity and learn from each other so as to move forward together in the right direction and finally better the development of your relationship.

5. Each of you select 5 ways from your partner’s list and implement them. For example, maybe you are in the hope of having some kisses or hugs before sleep, or maybe you are in fond of some specific forms of stroke, or maybe you would like to slow a little bit down the prelude during sex. Everybody has different needs from other people. Take some actions.

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How to Have Better Communication with Your Girlfriend

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When people are in a relationship, they tend to think that everything should be shown directly and there is no need to hide anything inside. However, the fact’s that people can easily get hurt by one word said by others. If you do not communicate with your significant other in a right way, your relationship may be harmed and worse still, invalid communication may lead to break-up. So for the sake of a healthy relationship, how can you do to better your communication with your girlfriend?

First, pay attention to your tone.

When you try to express something to your girl, you should pay attention to your tone. Negative tone can ruin a date with someone you like. Never ever talk with the lady in a negative tone. Your girlfriend is one of your most important persons and she is not your underling, so a command tone is improper to apply. Also, when you are communicating with your girl dealing with some small issues in life, then you had better say it directly instead of saying containing angry emotions. Being sarcastic is even worse in communication. Nobody wants to live with a guy who often makes ironic remarks. Just speak out in a calm voice when you are communicating with your girl and that’s more efficient than talking like quarreling.

Second, sort out your emotions.

When you are discussing something, remember not to bring your negative emotion caused by another issue to the one you are for the moment talking about. Imagine your partner is talking over the arrangements for holiday while you are still pissed off at her returning late yesterday and every word coming out of your mouth seems loaded by gunpowder. If you strongly insist what makes you lose your temper should be coped with first, you can confer with your girlfriend and discuss the topics in terms of sequence. It’s necessary to bring negative feeling to an irrelevant issue.

Third, choose the right time to talk.

No one can be in a good state with lots of energy all day. If you have some topics to kick around with your partner, it’s wise of you to avoid her bad moments. For example, when your girlfriend has just come back from tiring work, when she is in bad health, or when she is busy doing something…it’s not a right decision to have some discussion with her at such times. It’s even stupid to add fuel to the flames by stirring up strife when your significant other has already been very angry. Good communication is not possible with inappropriate time.

Last but not least, choose face-to-face communication.

Face-to-face communication is very efficient in that it can not only make people express their ideas in a direct way but also help the communicators receive direct feedback from each other so as to facilitate the two-way communication. The major target in communication is to state clearly what you want to say and make sure of getting the other person’s reaction. Of course, communication mode varies from person to person. You need to find a proper way of communication in your relationship and then you can assure more effective communication. Effective communication can to a large extent lead to better understanding and mutual respect.

How to Have a Cross-cultural Relationship with a Latino Lady

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♦ Not to have too high relationship expectation

Do you have an ideal image in your mind about a perfect soul mate? You want her to be beautiful, sexy, kind, tender and possess all the qualities a good wife is supposed to have. You want her to speak fluent English and have a good understanding of your culture. You also want her to be loyal and sincere to you. Of course, fantasizing about your love will help you form several standards and know more about what you want in a relationship. But you know that fantasy and reality are different. It’s better you have reasonable expectation in a love relationship because you are finding someone who may share the rest life with you, not a person just for fun. Therefore, it’s important to find a person who has similar values to yours, who makes efforts to overcome obstacles to be together with you. But too high relationship expectation will shorten the range of your choice.

Better your knowledge of Latin culture

Before you take the step to build up a relationship with a Latino lady, you’d better make yourself familiar to some knowledge of Latin culture and customs. If you don’t want to make your lady feel upset because of your lack of understanding about her country, you should take some actions. You don’t want to ruin your relationship just due to this kind of misunderstanding, right? Women from Latin America are outgoing and enthusiastic, and they really care about marriage. They have the same and maybe even higher expectation than yours of marriage relationship. If you are serious about having a long-lasting cross-cultural relationship, the first step should be getting close to her culture so as to reduce the cultural gap.

Deal with the language problem

In cross-cultural dating, how do you cope with language difference? If you are a member of LatamDate, you can use the translation service. It’s totally free when you are using Live Chat or EMF Mail with your beloved Latino lady. With a translator, you will find language difference is not that disturbing to your relationship. Of course, you can start to learn some daily expression of Spain, or Portuguese when the other is from Brazil. It’s a good way to show your sincerity to your lady.

Keep enjoying your life

Finding someone to share your life with is important but is not the only focus of your life. It’s unnecessary to let it occupy your whole life. If you have just ended a relationship, you don’t need to find another one to immediately. Living with yourself can also bring a lot of fun. A man who loves passion about his life is attractive. So when you are searching for your love on this website, don’t make your life merely revolve around finding a girlfriend.

To come to a conclusion, we know that a relationship between two people coming from different cultural backgrounds is not simple. It need’s the efforts of both sides. At most times, the match of personalities and a harmonious communication decide the largest part of this relationship. In this way, difference in cultural backgrounds are not that important. Starting a cross-cultural relationship can be exciting and interesting, but what leads to a successful cross-national relationship is based on your getting along well with your lady.